Here I attach a list of the books, tools, information and many different resources that could be useful to you if you are into BDSM or you are thinking about exploring this world of non-conventional sex practices. Please email me if you have something to offer or some opportune information I could add in this list to share. Also if you came to one of my workshops and you miss something I mentioned, please don’t hesitate to email me (mistressfoska@gmail.com) and I’ll be very happy to send you the information.
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THERAPISTS
(BDSM friendly and English speakers)
CONSENT
The Consent Checklist, by Meg-John Barker
The Wheel of Consent, by Betty Martin
BOOKS
Short post made by myself for begginers
The new bottoming book, Janet W.Hardy y Dossie Easton
The new topping book, Janet W.Hardy y Dossie Easton
The ultimate guide to kink, Tristan Taormino
SM 101: A realistic introduction, Jay Wiseman
Difficult Conversations. How to Discuss What Matters Most. Douglas Stone, Bruce Patton, and Sheila Heen
Power, a user’s guide by Julie Diamond
BARCELONA CLUBS & DUNGEONS
“NEUTRAL” SPACES WHERE TO PLAY (BARCELONA)
Hotels which rent rooms by hours
ROPE JAMS AND SHIBARI WORKSHOPS
(BARCELONA)
Sala de Luz (Telegram chanel to get the info)
THE MUNCHES
These are events organised by kinksters who want to get in touch with other BDSM lovers. It’s a very good place to chat about BDSM if you are still a bit afraid of going to a dungeon or club. They are held in regular bars or pubs all over the world and people who attend them dress casual (not fetish, leather or anything like that) and is not a space to play, just to chat, learn and meet people. Sometimes they have a welcome space for you to feel more comfortable if it’s the first time you are attending that meeting.
You can see the next events going through in Barcelona in their Fetlife profile or their Facebook group.
LATEX FETISH
Fetish Flamingo
Libidex
ORGASM CONTROL/TEASE AND DENIAL
Here you have a couple of videos that can give you some ideas about ways of playing with the sexual energy of your partner:
A GUIDE TO CLEAN YOUR ASS
(BEFORE PEGGING OR ANAL SEX)
FORMS TO NEGOTIATE
Here you can find an Online form
At the end of this post you can see the ones I use for my sessions
OTHER TOOLS & INFO
The subspace, A thread by Eva Oh (@youwillpleaseME)
Emergency traininf for BDSM practicioners, by Jay Wiseman
Emergency sissors for rope bondage :
ORTOPEDIA J.JUAN SELLAS –ANTIGUA CASA CABRÉ– C/Portaferrissa 6
Floggers, furniture, toys & more:
DRAKO -A very interesting person who would describe himself as a “naughty objects craftsman”. If you want to reach him, you’d better go to the Munches*, but sometimes he checks his email box drako_sd@hotmail.com.